hardship is the best teacher.

i've learnt a lot today and i shall write a lot on my life lessons list.
you know i always adore person who stands on their life principes and person who has their own life passion and a person who succeed from their own hardship cause i think its their way to control their life,not life controlling them.
so i know this man. a man whom you put no trust on at the first sight of him. he's a rebel i tell you,but after so long got to know him i see reasons beyond his rebellious act. he told me all the bad things he had done,and how each of his past act reflect back the true meaning of life right in front of his eyes. he told me the hardship he had gone through in surviving,how was it to feel living in a family without the presence of a father who gave up his responsibility towards them and how he took the responsibility of a father towards his family.
he told me how much he had seen how soft woman's heart is back then when his mom got divorced making him vowed to himself that he would never hurt a woman.
he told me how much he had learnt from his past love life,being left by someone he trusted on who left him drowning to go after another man and how his life falls like dominos to rebuilt life when he lost someone he loved. and yet i should be grateful enough that i'm capable of rebuilding life again after my half way broken relationship.
i know his hardship working day and night to give himself a living cause i witnessed his tired face every night eventhough he never whine even a little but it was well written on his face,his expression.
and even so i never deny the fact that he had his negative side too just like how everyone have.
we had gone through hardship to fall in love battling with our own life confusion,we had gone through hardship to be in love and i pray to god that this hardship will make us strong cause i know i never be strong again to be heartbroken.